Never Argue,Only Discuss

“Whenever you're in conflict with someone, there is one factor that can make the difference between damaging your relationship and deepening it. That factor is attitude.”

When you get into an argument what do you achieve? Almost nothingexcept for some negative emotions. Both you and the person on the other side do not feel so comfortable after an argument.

A Discussion is always very healthy where you begin to look at things from the other person's perspective. If only you had thatfeeling and attitude that yes I can look at what the other personis wanting to convey then your perception changes and you startto understand the person better.

If you resist to accept ideas, then there is a roughness betweenthe two and will end up spoiling the relatioship also.Whenevern you get into an argument look at what the person wants to convey to you and then continue where in you understand them better.

Look at Opportunities of Life

"The optimist sees opportunity in every danger; the pessimist sees danger in every opportunity"

In life it is about what we focus on. We always have 2 choices in life. One to look at all positives of Life or the negatives.

There are many events in life that cannot be avoided and we can feel bad that we are not in control of things around us. We can instead begin to focus on what is the positive outcome of the even that has already occurred.

Life turns out to be whatwe see out of it. It is a conscious decision that we make to look at the positives of life. We can always see some danger and obstacles, but as a winner we must have to look at what best we can achieve out of the most negative event.

Practice Makes Perfection

“I fear not the man who has practiced 10,000 kicks once, but I fear the man who has practiced one kick 10,000 times”

I can recall the quote because I remember, when I was a kid, my master used to tell every one the same. He used to say "Practice makes perfection". Don't need to have too many techniques but just a few and perfect it so that, it becomes your strength and the opponent will also be scared of that. He used to insist that it is true for life too. Practice your studies and do well in that too. In life it is of utmost importance to perfect the art we are into so that we become indispensable. We have competition and we can out beat them, only by perfecting the strategy that isadopted. Though Perfection is a very subjective term, what you think you can achieve is only by practice. Even today after so many thousandsof hours of training I practice before a training. That reminds meI have Born To Win coming up and let me gear up for that.