“Whenever you're in conflict with someone, there is one factor that can make the difference between damaging your relationship and deepening it. That factor is attitude.”
When you get into an argument what do you achieve? Almost nothingexcept for some negative emotions. Both you and the person on the other side do not feel so comfortable after an argument.
A Discussion is always very healthy where you begin to look at things from the other person's perspective. If only you had thatfeeling and attitude that yes I can look at what the other personis wanting to convey then your perception changes and you startto understand the person better.
If you resist to accept ideas, then there is a roughness betweenthe two and will end up spoiling the relatioship also.Whenevern you get into an argument look at what the person wants to convey to you and then continue where in you understand them better.
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